Time to seal the deal—the last few minutes of a date are crucial to make sure a second date happen.

Do you have any fun plans for the rest of the weekend?

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The final questions should easily transition you out of the date while subtly implying that you’d be down to meet up again.

If you think things went well, don’t be afraid to let him or her know.

Some people say, “Yeah, well it’s Howard Stern…” as if his specific biological makeup allows him to be the only person who gets people to open up.

When really, he’s worked very hard to learn how to push people’s buttons and allow them to be vulnerable.

If you’re confident, ask if she or he would like to continue the date someplace else. ) alternate ending to the night rather than simply going your separate ways after drinks or dinner. There’s this cool bar I know around here, want to go grab a drink? Want to get coffee/dessert after this somewhere else? My friend’s actually having a party a few blocks away, do you wanna stop by?

This phase is tricky, and should only be reserved if you’re really feeling strong vibes.

I talked about illicit drug experiences on the very first night I met my girlfriend.

And I’ve made best friends with complete strangers by shamelessly sharing my dark and dirty sense of humor. We are dying for the opportunity to connect and talk about real shit.

So even if someone disagrees with your opinions or values (like many do with Howard Stern), they feel comfortable opening up, too.

When people sense you’re bullshitting or just trying to impress them where they will hold back. When someone shares something personal with you, they’re being vulnerable.

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