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So I am a single mother of a beautiful 10 month old & am fully established. I seem to only find men who are just looking for sex.

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Seriously, these women are just not worth the grief.

Dealing with these women is a recipe for drama, drama, and more drama.

He acknowledges that many women make the mistake of telling their young sons that they are “the man of the house,” something the young boy may take great pride in.

The son will thus challenge any contender to the throne and his power in the household.

However, the chances of “baby daddy drama” increase substantially the more personalities there are involved in the new relationship.

Men may stick around for awhile for the convenience such a relationship offers, but few are looking to “wife up” a woman that has that much baggage. Tim is a 33 year old computer technician in San Jose.You could imagine how difficult it was to meet someone my age. Shortly after, I was talking on the phone with a mom friend who was going through a divorce, and she was also worried that now that she has three kids, no one will want to date her. Gone are the days of navigating 20 potential companions because half of them were bored when they signed up for JDate. Man-children will run because to them, you mean no more video games and bongs -– and this is good for you, because you already have one (or two or three) butts to wipe –- you don’t need two.This saddens my heart, because single mothers are awesome, powerhouses, forces of nature. There are some major advantages to dating after you make little people. First of all, you don’t have time for that nonsense. Real men will be honest with their intentions with you.Who else can stay up all night feeding a screaming human with food they made from their own body? Below are three main reasons why it’s better to date as a single mother. Men who don’t want to date a single mother are doing you a huge favor. They will say, “Hey I don’t want kids,” “Lets just have sex,” or, “I like you lets see where date two goes -– I will pay for the sitter.” The other kind of man will hightail it for someone who doesn’t challenge their fantasy world. Not just anyone can spend the entire night stripping the entire house due to a lice outbreak at the school and get up at 5 am to make lunches.Then turn around and do it again all morning, afternoon, late evening, night, early morning, morning with no breaks and all while working a full time job! Men who run are doing you a favor because they just saved you wasted time crying on the phone to your girlfriends wondering why he didn’t call for two days. YOU DON’T HAVE TIME TO WASTE It costs to date people now that you are single mother, in the range of to an hour. Anyone would be lucky to capture your attention, even for just a moment.It doesn’t take you 10 dates to decide if you like him. Never again will you spend 0 on a bad night –- then turn around and get up at 6 am to take care of a cranky two-year-old. We are not neccesarily looking for “the one.” They could be the one for now, the one for later, the one I enjoyed hanging out with last month. Because guess what, you already have kids and marriage sucked. And If you actually seriously like someone, you know how to say, “Hey, I like you.