RD: Did you get ANY messages from guys that seemed nice at all? AW: No, but the creepy messages most likely ruined it for any decent guys that might be around.Those messages made me run far, far away from online dating.I don’t know, maybe some girls might think of that as a compliment but personally, I would have preferred a simple message like, “Hey, would you like to talk?

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In hindsight, I suppose if I had stayed active with it for a little longer MAYBE I would have encountered a “nice” guy.

I have to mention that I did get maybe a message or two from guys that seemed okay, but once I checked out their profiles, it didn’t seem like we had anything in common so I didn’t bother.

Succinctness in writing not a strength.”Since replying to the man, Ms Serota has received another message from him – which she dubbed a “non-apology”.

In the second message, the man said: “Yes, I’m the ‘creep’ that caused you grief yesterday.“I completely failed to see the worst case, that you might miss the humour and reasonably interpret it as an insult.

Ms Serota tweeted: “I just received a 500-word Ok Cupid message with no less than three back-handed compliments.“And the admission that the person did some deep-Googling on me and searched Ok C to find me.“This might be the message that makes me shut down my account.”She added: “Apparently finding a normal dude to date is just too much to ask.”In his detailed message to Ms Serota, the amorous writer said he was intrigued by her “wit, eclectic tweets, sensibility and cats” and that her tweets about Ok Cupid were “fun and poignant and eye opening”.“Googling was necessary and so easy…

Google images had me again more smitten with your image than writing,” he wrote.

Okay, it’s time to have an open and frank discussion about the battle of the sexes and the dating game.

It’s far too complex, scary and difficult for mere mortals – so let’s bridge the gap by asking both men and women what doesn’t work when it comes to online dating Dating has gone digital.

You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.