Everytime I answered what I know now was a false message, the gentleman deactivated his account.

Then out of the blue there was a message I had sent saying I wanted to chat with him. I felt onliged to talk to him, then he just stopped any contact.

Joined because of my age, and wanting a partner about the same age. Regularly got "interest" from women who were seriously over-weight, far too old or lived many miles away. :)Olderdatingonline initiate mass introductions and initiate false "want to meet you messages".

Says there's an error and they're fixing it.

Can't get onto support, can't cancel, no way to find out what's going on....terrible customer service.

There are at least 4 older dating sites controlled by Venntro. I was not able to change things I had previously written, without their approval. the few men I actually got to dating stage were not worth the time.

It was my first time on one of these sites, so I was just very honest. Upon review of what I had written, I wanted to change some things. Looks like there are lots of guys but I wonder how many are legitimate members.

I feel so Demi Moore,' a woman posted, in reference to Ms Moore's doomed relationship with fellow actor Ashton Kutcher, who was 15 years her junior when their eight-year relationship crumbled in 2011.

In the spirit of Sex and the City's Samantha Jones (pictured) a woman admitted she is drawn to younger men because they don't require as much commitment and she has 'complete control over the relationship''On his part, it's difficult falling for a woman who's past child-bearing age and then later on realising you do want children after all and it's not possible to have them with her,' Tracey points out.

‘I always had boyfriends when I was younger and assumed I would again after James was born,’ she says. These chats were fun — and sometimes quite flirty — but if I ever suggested we meet, the men would often back off, saying they were not looking for a relationship.’A dozen or so dates followed over the years, none of them quite right.

When she last registered with an online dating site she was 44 — and few men made contact.

Warning......................beware of the words "passionate, affectionate, or loving", if you get my drift!!